Why Bother?

There are days when I just feel like giving up…

Why bother?

It’s too much work trying to be with you.

We may live in the same community but you might as well be on the other side of the world.

I know relationships need work, but this is too much work,

After seven years, things should move forward.

I have been such a fool to waste so much time on a man who can never be truly committed.

I don’t want to live in stagnation anymore.

There’s no such thing as standing still

If we’re not moving forward, then we’re falling back….

…and  commitment isn’t the default position for not having sex with other women.